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I’m slightly confused by this question.
When in a missionary position I wrap my legs around my partners waist.
If you’re under 18 you can buy sex toys online.
If you’re not getting off from sex or clitoral masturbation you might want to ask a doctor.
Some guys really like it.
I have a horrible gag reflex but I’ve found just using generic throat numbing spray from any store with a pharmacy makes it a lot easier.
I cannot get any pleasure from fingering myself so don’t worry. I don’t even liked to be fingered by my fiance. If you want to masturbate vaginally I suggest using a toy.
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